Just the other day, I did some work on an ancestral line of my own, helped by a tapping friend. And while this might not strictly be a family system issue, it is quite possible that family rules are anchored in something that happened to one or more of your ancestors.
Yes, this is a bit woo woo.
On the other hand, I’ve seen this often enough with clients, and I have also seen the changes that happened when this kind of thing gets released. In fact, I experienced this quite vividly myself.
So what do I mean with this ancestral thing?
One way of having ancestral warnings from actual experience enter the family system is via a strict family rule. We can find those patterns by looking closely at family members and their life decisions.
The rule might be: Avoid Fame AT ALL COST.
Straight road to Writers’ Block, obviously, since writers need at least some publicity in order to be successful. And why even finish a book if being published and getting known is so dangerous?
This rule is easily shifted with EFT. If you need help with this, let me know.
The other way is more insidious, and it happens on your personal energy level.
Maybe one ancestor of you actually did get famous and paid a high price for it. Falling from fame often ended with death. We may never truly know what happened, but that kind of energetic shock can be passed down through the generations. It’s that clear “do not get famous, or else” energy that can stop anyone in their tracks, or require a lot of willpower to work through.
Get famous and you die just as I did.
And no, it’s not in your mind. It in your energy system.
Which means you cannot defeat it with talking about it or rational arguments. You cannot defeat it with willpower in the long run. You can’t even touch it with affirmations. The energy system works through emotions, the way your body feels, and how your creativity flows.
I use visualizations to guide my clients through searching for the origin of that energetic block or warning, and then use EFT tapping to bring that rouge energy back to where it belongs. If possible, we resolve this at the point of origin. If not, we send that energy back, freeing my client of its influence and allowing the possibility of resolution. It doesn’t matter how far back this goes in the ancestral line.
The other day, I “saw” a dark cloud lift from me and my family members as I did that work.
And I don’t care if this is woo woo, idiotic or complete nonsense because I’ve seen it work. And to me, that’s what counts.
Now, today my little tapping phrases feel quite inadequate. Because this work requires personal connection and trust, as well as some guidance – it’s hard to do it on your own.
Even so, I do want to get you started if this topic resonates with you.
Even if I might carry this kind of ancestral energy in me, and it blocks my writing somehow, I’m totally okay the way I am, and I now choose to send this energy back to where it belongs.
Even if it feels really strange to think something like that is blocking my writing, I’m totally okay the way I am, and I’m now sending back that energy just in case.
Even though this information resonates with me, and that scares me a little, I’m totally okay the way I am, and I now choose to visualize sending back that scary energy and releasing that kind of ancestral influence.
Do you run into emotional rubber walls when you have Writers’ Block?
Did this topic resonate with you?
What happened while you were tapping?
And finally – what are you creating right now?
Please share in a comment!
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PS: You’ll find my personal experiences with these beliefs in the comment section. Because I am tapping with these very sentences, I’m inviting you to join me on this journey, and share your experiences.
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